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One of the most important business management principles in
any team is to create an atmosphere where feedback can be
exchanged in a constructive manner. In our business coaching for
entrepreneurs, we create team exercises that make it easy for
360 degree feedback” to be shared by all members of the
team, including team leaders and managers.  The following is an
exercise which you can use in your team:

Ask your team members to split up into teams of two. Ask them
to pick a partner, and choose who is to be A and who is to be B.  
You may also want to participate so that your team members can
feel that you are an open minded manager, willing to also accept
constructive feedback.  You can either facilitate the exercise, or
appoint someone to facilitate for you if you choose to participate
in the exercise.

Set a timeline of 10 minutes per partner and make sure you have
the facilitator follow strict timelines to keep the exercise on track.
Make sure to provide a summary of the rules of engagement as
follows:

Maintaining Silence

Encourage the partner A to take their time in providing feedback
while partner B remains silent. Partner B should resist the urge
to reply with a challenging answer. Partner B should quietly listen
to the feedback while maintaining eye contact and demonstrating
an interest.

Paraphrasing

If the time allows, once partner A has finished with feedback,
partner B should reflect back the feedback that they heard.
Paraphrasing shows that partner B is listening and understanding!


Being Sensitive

Partner A should make sure to use positive language in their
feedback comments.  This is not an action to dump on or criticize
a fellow team member, but rather a way to encourage
improvement in personal challenges. Acting sensitive to the
needs of the person is important as they may reject the feedback
initially. Give the person space to think in his/her time. This may
help the person to absorb the feedback.


GIVING FEEDBACK

A will be providing feedback on B’s performance.

You will both be given role-play sheets of what has been going on
and the person you are to play.

After you have completed that, change roles and complete role-
play 2.

What worked well?

What could have been done better?

What will you know for next time?


RECEIVING FEEDBACK

As long as feedback is given in a non-judgmental and appropriate
way, it is a valuable piece of information for learning and for
continued personal development.

Constructive feedback is critical for self-development and
growth; here are some points to bear in mind when you receive
feedback.

1.        Don’t shy away from constructive feedback, welcome it
2.        Accept feedback of any sort for what it is – information
3.        Evaluate the feedback before responding
4.        Make your own choice about what you intend to do with
the information

The feedback emotional rollercoaster

Whether you are giving or receiving feedback it is useful to bare
in mind the following model when it comes to people who receive
feedback.

          D A W A

DENIAL
When people first receive feedback, they have a tendency to
deny it. Please avoid immediate defensiveness – arguing, denying
and justifying. This just gets in the way of your appreciation of
the information you are being given.

ANGER
After the denial stage comes anger! So you’ve been told that your
work is not as good as what it ought to be. You’ve said, “It’s as
good as always” so you are denying it then you become angry as
it stews in your mind and body. The immediate reaction is to
fume!

WITHDRAWAL
After the anger has calmed down, the person has had time to
reflect and ponder on the feedback. “Well, I have been making
more mistakes then normal” This is when time is taken out to
mull over the feedback and think about what it actually means.

ACCEPTANCE
The final part of this model is finally accepting the feedback,
assessing its value and the consequences of ignoring it, or using it.
“There ARE things I can improve.”
                                                     



               
Pamela Millar, CEO
               Bridgemakers Consulting
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